The Mirror Kink and How It Can Promote Confidence

Self-reflection is important, which is why the mirror kink can turn sexy time into a mind-blowing act of self-love.

If beauty is in the eye of the beholder, then having sex in front of a mirror must be an otherworldly experience. Or at least, that’s how people into katoptronphilia feel about it.

What Is the Mirror Kink — Katoptronophilia?

The mirror kink, officially known as katoptronophilia, refers to the sexual arousal or pleasure derived from mirrors. Though it may sound unusual to some, it deservedly falls within the beautiful spectrum of human sexuality and kinks.

Mirrors serve as a powerful tool for self-exploration and fantasy. The reflective surface can amplify physical sensations, enhance visual appeal and create a unique and intimate experience.

You can practice katoptronophilia by yourself, or with a partner. You can katoptronophilia during an orgy as you all try to pronounce the word katoptronophilia. You know those carnival funhouse mirrors? Set them up and really work those angles.

A Sexy, Confidence-Boosting Reflection of Self

One woman on Reddit’s r/ sex community stumbled upon the kink randomly. She told Redditors that she has insecurities about her figure, but that when she masturbated in front of a mirror she felt a surge of confidence.

Redditors were supportive and happy that the OP was able to increase her self-esteem via katoptronophilia. Some have also masturbated or have had sex in front of mirrors.

“I do the same thing. It really helped me to feel secure about myself. Sometimes I get a smaller mirror and record it. With just the vagene in view. It’s hot,” u/ Baby-Girl-6969 wrote.

“How wonderful for you that you’re able to see yourself as a desirable sexual being. That’s excellent! Confidence is sexy,” u/ unusual-feline wrote.

Someone’s got jokes: “I tried, but the other people in the elevator were being all weird about it,” u/ Flimsy-Reading-1774 wrote.

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Reminder: You’re beautiful just the way you are and you deserve to feel sexy. Accepting yourself and appreciating everything you are will help increase your self-love. Sometimes, watching yourself as you’re feeling really good creates a feeling of self-satisfaction.

There’s nothing wrong with trying new things! Especially when they’re a low-stakes kink like — once again, say it with me — katoptronophilia.


Do you want to have sex with more people but monogamy is holding you back? Read this and maybe you can open up your relationship (but don’t hold your breath).

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