“True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.” — Josh Grayson, ‘Sia’ (2013).
Side by side is one of dozens of positions that best buds can explore in a hot and heavy threesome.
While romantic partnerships and best friendships are relationships that require trust, commitment and understanding, one of them usually lacks a key component: sex.
What If Your Bestie Wants You to Get Sexy?
Asking a best friend or being asked by one to join a threesome can be understandably perplexing. It’s exciting and adventurous. It’s terrifying and awkward. The pros and cons must be weighed before making a decision.
On one hand, a threesome can offer a unique opportunity for sexual exploration and intimacy. It could deepen the bond between the three individuals involved, fostering a sense of thrilling trust. It can be a way to break out of routine and really deepen your relationship.
However, the potential risks are undeniable. A threesome could strain existing relationships, especially if jealousy or insecurity arises. It might also lead to emotional complications, particularly if one person develops stronger feelings for another.
For all intents and purposes, your friendship will never be the same — good or bad.
Ultimately, the decision to participate in a bosom buddy threesome is a personal one. It’s essential to have open and honest communication with everyone while setting clear boundaries and expectations.
If everyone’s down, why not? Just accept the competing realities that a threesome could improve your friendship or it could ruin it.
Thanksgiving Threesome: Beautifully Freaky Friendship
One male Reddit user, 29, was invited by his best friend, 29, to join him and his girlfriend, 34, for a Thanksgiving threesome. He wrote on Reddit’s /r sex community to share his experience, saying he’s a little hesitant to be naked in front of his best friend but not in front of her whatsoever.
“Frankly, I’m single and she has a great body. Never had a threesome, but always wanted to with two girls. I’m good looking just never had the opportunity. Not too thrilled on the idea of being naked with him haha but she fine,” u/ Choice_Panic5871 wrote.
We’ll have to wait and see what the OP decides, but entire civilizations have been built and destroyed on the basic sentiment of “fuck it — she fine.”
Some Redditors, many with their own experiences on the matter, shared their thoughts. The consensus on whether he should go ahead and become the swinging third wheel? Mostly that it’s a bad idea, but there are always exceptions to the rule.
Been there, threesome’d that: “Don’t do it. I banged my buddies wife in front of him cause he is a cuck and it ruined our friendship over it. So I would pass on this if you still want to be friends with your buddy,” u/ 03_SVTCobra wrote.
The ol’ “I wouldn’t do that if I was you”: “That can fuck up your friendship. There are hundreds of threads here of people complaining about how threesomes have them insecurities and so on. I wouldn’t risk losing my best friend, especially over something you are not too thrilled about anyways,” u/ Ok_Ad_367 wrote.
A sensible, pragmatic approach: “You guys could spit roast her. Just keep her in the middle at all times to stay away from your friend,” u/ JayJaytheunbanned wrote.
A positive perspective: “Maybe I’m in the minority but I had threesomes with my best friend and his wife several times and that was no problems for our relationship, between any of us,” u/ ymOx wrote.
What if you’re just getting started? Here are some tips on how you can approach asking your partner if they want to have group sex.
